TOYS ARE TOOLS

For many people, integrating sex toys into their intimate lives can be intimidating! “What if my partner thinks I’m not enjoying myself if we use a toy?” “What if they feel threatened by the toy?” “What if I’m not able to enjoy sex without it?” Try looking at a toy as if it’s a tool: we don’t shame a contractor for using tools, rather than just their hands, to construct a house. In fact, the nicer and fancier a contractor’s tools are the more likely we are to think they’re proficient at their job!